Sunday, March 8, 2015

Meeting #253: Cherish (Written by Becky Benjamin; Edited by Timothy Nakayama)

I had enjoyed a great start to the week and I got even more excited come evening as I was headed to Mid Valley Toastmasters Club’s meeting after work. It was the first meeting for the month of February 2015, and upon arrival, I was happy to see familiar friends and new guests enjoying the light refreshment served by Cititel Mid Valley Hotel. We always enjoy this period of chit-chat and food, as it allows us to fill our stomachs before the meeting!

As I was the Sergeant-At-Arms (SAA) for the night, I started the meeting at 7pm sharp after calling all members and guests into the meeting room. I welcomed everyone to the meeting and introduced the word of the day, “Cherish”. The word has multiple meanings such as: 
(i)                 to hold or treat as dear;
(ii)               feel love for, to care tenderly;
(iii)              nurture or to cling fondly or inveterate to;
As part of the club’s meeting culture, we encourage members and guests to use the word of the day as often as possible during the meetings.

Our President, Shim Chee Loon, had some personal matters to attend to, so our club’s Sergeant-At-Arm Chong Chee Siong, was Acting President for the meeting. He used his humorous personality to good effect, engaging the crowd with an Ice Breaking session that saw both members and guests introducing themselves, often in a funny manner!

The meeting proceeded with the Love Edition of Table Topic, whereby volunteers would receive a random topic and speak about it extemporaneously. Many guests volunteered to brave their first ever attempt at public speaking. And bravo! They did a good job! 

The meeting then proceeded to the Prepared Speeches session.

Our first speaker of the evening was Yeap Wei Leeng with his speech “Cash”. The premise of his speech was on how we should all spend our cash wisely. Wei Leeng gave examples of his own experience in doing so, like the time where he had decided to buy a new pair of glasses for himself.

The title of his speech “Cash” was presented as an acronym – C.A.S.H. The C stood for Comfort, whereby he suggested that, like the pair of glasses he purchased, we should buy things built for quality and comfort. The A stands for appearance, whereby we should purchase only those items that look good on us, which will in turn make us even more confident in ourselves. The S stands for security, in which we should look for purchases that offer consistency and durability, and those which can last for the long-term. Lastly came the H, which stood for health – purchases should keep us in good health, or at the very least, not be harmful to us. Wei Leeng then tied all four letters back into his experience of buying quality glasses for himself, which he did in order to ensure that his eye vision stayed healthy.

The meeting took an even more interesting turn when Wong Mi Shan delivered a speech about Peter Singer. As an audience member, I had to admit, I was curious as to who this Peter Singer was. The setting for Mi Shan’s speech was at the 2015 Animal Rights Conference, where she was delivering a speech praising Peter Singer’s good work on animal rights and how it has inspired her and others to do more for animal rights.

One scene that was described especially well was Singer’s Eureka moment: it was Singer’s friend and colleague at the University of Oxford, Richard Cancion, who had piqued Singer’s curiosity when he ordered a meatless salad. When Singer quizzed Cancion on his choice of food, Cancion’s answers on the cruelty dealt upon animals made Singer realize that that cruelty was similar to the oppression of women by men and the cruelty that was inflicted upon the Jews by the Nazis during the Holocaust.

Sitting there as an audience member, I too felt her passion for the topic and I dare say I felt inspired too. Good speech, Mi Shan!

The last speaker for the night was Timothy Nakayama, with his speech “The Desire and the Will”. He lured us in at the start of his speech by revealing that he had a secret to share with us, which certainly caught our attention. When he then went on to reveal the big secret that he was an introvert, nobody really believed him as many of us had already witnessed him delivering great speeches during speech contests. Timothy went on to state that his profession as a writer allowed him precious little opportunities for face-to-face contact with others, and that early on in his career, he had pondered on the possibility that he might have to do a book reading one day, which also meant that it would be in his best interest to brush up on his communication skills. Which is how he found out about Toastmasters, or Mid Valley Toastmasters Club in particular!

After joining Toastmasters, Timothy began to observe, learn and practice his public speaking skills. He then gave the audience 3 fundamental tips on becoming a better speaker, based on what he had observed from proficient speakers. These are:

  1. Say something that you very much want to say.
  2. Speak with enthusiasm.
  3. Love your audience.
Timothy concluded his speech by mentioning that age is never a limit when it came to learning anything, including public speaking skills. He implored members to recall the reason why they had joined Toastmasters as well as to make the most out of their journey in the realm of public speaking – nothing is unachievable in this world.

Brave to all the speakers! As an audience member, I felt that the topics today were very inspiring. The second half of the meeting was focused on giving feedback to all the speakers, for the speech evaluators to let the speakers know how they had done on their speeches and what they could do to improve further. It was an enlightening session for speakers and audience alike!

Well, I am certainly looking forward to the next meeting! See you all soon!

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